{"id":21,"date":"2007-08-26T14:41:25","date_gmt":"2007-08-26T19:41:25","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/relaxandhavefun.com\/?p=21"},"modified":"2009-04-07T05:46:10","modified_gmt":"2009-04-07T12:46:10","slug":"the-happiness-myth","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/relaxandhavefun.com\/?p=21","title":{"rendered":"The Happiness Myth"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>I first learned of Jennifer Michael Hecht&#8217;s newest title, <a href=\"http:\/\/www.amazon.com\/gp\/product\/0060813970?ie=UTF8&amp;tag=relaxandhavef-20&amp;linkCode=as2&amp;camp=1789&amp;creative=9325&amp;creativeASIN=0060813970\">The Happiness Myth: Why What We Think Is Right Is Wrong<\/a><img loading=\"lazy\" src=\"http:\/\/www.assoc-amazon.com\/e\/ir?t=relaxandhavef-20&amp;l=as2&amp;o=1&amp;a=0060813970\" style=\"border: medium none  ! important; margin: 0px ! important\" border=\"0\" height=\"1\" width=\"1\" \/> , via D.J. Grothe and his <a href=\"http:\/\/www.pointofinquiry.org\/?p=111\" target=\"_blank\">interview <\/a>with her on the Point of Inquiry podcast. I highly recommend listening to the interview before reading the book. It gives a very good feel for Hecht&#8217;s personality and approach to the subject.<o:p><\/o:p><\/p>\n<p>The book begins with a definition of the three distinct kinds of happiness: a good day, euphoria and a happy life. I really enjoyed the philosophy\/psychology in this section, regarding how the three kinds of happiness are very different and often at odds with each other (for example, a good day might include celebrating by eating and drinking a lot at a party&#8230;.which cannot be done every day and still allow you to maintain a happy life). Next, Hecht reviews the four ancient happiness wisdom imperatives to know yourself, control your desires, take what&#8217;s yours and remember death, then spends the largest section of the book covering four areas of happiness: Drugs, Money, Bodies and Celebration. In each area, she reviews the historical perspectives and contrasts them to today&#8217;s &#8220;cultural trance definition&#8221; of happiness. A brief Conclusion encourages the reader to consider what they are doing to nourish\/create each of the three kinds of happiness and exhorts the reader to get out there and do something and note how well it works.<o:p><\/o:p><\/p>\n<p>The overall message from the book for me was that we live under the strong spell of our culture&#8217;s definitions of happiness. The antidote to that spell is an historical understanding of happiness.<o:p><\/o:p><\/p>\n<p>The book was easy to read, since the subject was very interesting to me. Hecht writes in the first person, so reading the book is like listening to her give a lecture. This caught me off guard at first, but you get used to it. The familiarity of the first person style is balanced by rigorous footnotes and references.<o:p><\/o:p><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I first learned of Jennifer Michael Hecht&#8217;s newest title, The Happiness Myth: Why What We Think Is Right Is Wrong , via D.J. Grothe and his interview with her on the Point of Inquiry podcast. I highly recommend listening to the interview before reading the book. It gives a very good feel for Hecht&#8217;s personality [&#8230;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[4],"tags":[8,20],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/relaxandhavefun.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/21"}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/relaxandhavefun.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/relaxandhavefun.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/relaxandhavefun.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/relaxandhavefun.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=21"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"http:\/\/relaxandhavefun.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/21\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":272,"href":"http:\/\/relaxandhavefun.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/21\/revisions\/272"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/relaxandhavefun.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=21"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/relaxandhavefun.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=21"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/relaxandhavefun.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=21"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}