Posts Tagged ‘Happiness’

The Magic of Thinking Big

Sunday, March 1st, 2009

In a departure from my regular reading plan, I recently enjoyed David J. Schwartz’ The Magic of Thinking Big.  First published in 1959, the book is dated yet very refreshing.  It is one of those books like Carnegie’s How to Win Friends and Influence People and Hill’s Think and Grow Rich.   The cover of my edition advertises it as “a unique way to magnify your thinking patterns and achieve the things you want:  -Higher Income  -Financial Security -A Prestige Job -Power and Influence…”  That sounds corny, and the book is corny, but in a charming and level-headed way.  The advice amongst all the stories of Salesman Dave and Executive Bob is great advice.  You could take the core wisdom and easily re-write into something heavier-sounding:  Personal Diplomacy:  Methods towards a New Era of Global Leaders.

Every chapter of The Magic of Thinking Big (with titles like “Believe You Can Succeed and You Will” and “Get the Action Habit”) has concrete examples of how improving your thoughts and actions can lead to a better, more full life.  Schwartz provides very clear tools to show you how to apply his ideas.  Although he sometimes veers a bit close to the currently-popular woo of The Law of Attraction, he never completely lapses into New Age foolishness.   His ideas are about how to think and behave rationally, in a way that leads to more success and more valid friendships.

This is the kind of book that my grandfather John Wallace would have read, pondered and applied to his life.  The book is a gentle reminder that we all need to treat others with respect, create and act towards goals, and think big.   Those who read mostly “serious” works would benefit from taking a break and enjoying a tonic like The Magic of Thinking Big.

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The Happiness Myth

Sunday, August 26th, 2007

I first learned of Jennifer Michael Hecht’s newest title, The Happiness Myth: Why What We Think Is Right Is Wrong , via D.J. Grothe and his interview with her on the Point of Inquiry podcast. I highly recommend listening to the interview before reading the book. It gives a very good feel for Hecht’s personality and approach to the subject.

The book begins with a definition of the three distinct kinds of happiness: a good day, euphoria and a happy life. I really enjoyed the philosophy/psychology in this section, regarding how the three kinds of happiness are very different and often at odds with each other (for example, a good day might include celebrating by eating and drinking a lot at a party….which cannot be done every day and still allow you to maintain a happy life). Next, Hecht reviews the four ancient happiness wisdom imperatives to know yourself, control your desires, take what’s yours and remember death, then spends the largest section of the book covering four areas of happiness: Drugs, Money, Bodies and Celebration. In each area, she reviews the historical perspectives and contrasts them to today’s “cultural trance definition” of happiness. A brief Conclusion encourages the reader to consider what they are doing to nourish/create each of the three kinds of happiness and exhorts the reader to get out there and do something and note how well it works.

The overall message from the book for me was that we live under the strong spell of our culture’s definitions of happiness. The antidote to that spell is an historical understanding of happiness.

The book was easy to read, since the subject was very interesting to me. Hecht writes in the first person, so reading the book is like listening to her give a lecture. This caught me off guard at first, but you get used to it. The familiarity of the first person style is balanced by rigorous footnotes and references.

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